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Mandy asks…
My wife has gained a lot of weight.?
We aren’t having sex because I’m losing interest in her physically. I think she knows why but also feels I must ED. Any ideas would help.
Stephen Clinton answers:
She must let herself gain that extra weight because she lost interest already in getting intimate with you because of your problem. You should talk about it and be open to get a solution.
Charles asks…
My wife has gained a lot of weight over the last few years. I keep telling her she looks like a pig, but…?
she just eats even more… what should I do???
Stephen Clinton answers:
You do whatever makes you happy bro
Ken asks…
Men would you cheat on your wife if she gained a lot weight?
My aunt used to be absolutely stunning when she married my uncle. She was 19 and he was 32 when they got married. She had a body like the female professional dancers on dancing with the stars. Now she will be 41 this Novemember. She had her first child at 22 from then on she balloned up. She had a total of three kids. Each child she had she gained weight. She’s 5’4 and weights like 350lbs yikes!!! Plus she has a thyroid problem and takes antidepressants. My uncle treats her like dog crap. I remember a guy at my job said he could never be faithful to a fat woman.
Stephen Clinton answers:
The uncle’s no gem. But she’s not available to him in any meaningful way.
She’s depressed. Lethally overweight and potentially diabetic and likely to have kidney and heart failure. Sex is not existent. He can see no future but just taking care of her.
If people were all angels, he wouldn’t take it out on her. The ONLY question, the ONLY concern you have is not for her health, not for his anger, it’s whether he’s cheating. You don’t even care if he has a sex life. You’re as bad as he is. Shallow and ready to pounce on broken people.
The aunt needs counseling before lap banding, but she’s got to get surgical help. It’s beyond her ability on her own. Get the family to chip in. Do bake sales. Do anything to save the poor woman’s life instead of worrying about what your uncle is doing with his penis. Really!
Donald asks…
If your wife gained a lot of weight, would you still be sexually attracted to her?
Would you still want to have sex with her? Would you still love her? And would you cheat on her?
Just 10 months ago I was a skinny, my weight was around 117 pounds. Now i gained a lot of weight 40lbs. And I’m scared that he isn’t attracted to me anymore. He never said anything bad, he says he loves me and finds me beautiful no matter what but I just have such a hard time believing him. I know I should, but I can’t help but think that he would much rather be with someone skinny since he is so athletic and in a good shape. I try to loose the weight but that doesn’t happen overnight, I work out and I eat healthy but it takes time, he is supportive but i know he prefers skinny women so I just can’t imagine he enjoys to have sex with me.
Stephen Clinton answers:
Q: If your wife gained a lot of weight, would you still be sexually attracted to her?
A: Not so much. However, given your starting weight, though, 157 lbs doesn’t sound too bad, unless you are pretty short.
Q: Would you still want to have sex with her?
A: Probably, but it my the frequency would definitely be less than before.
Q: Would you still love her?
A: YES! Weight and love are not related in my mind!
Q: And would you cheat on her?
A: NO! Her weight and MY personal honor are not related in my mind!
Laura asks…
Guys – is it a turnoff if your wife gains a lot of weight?
I’m talking about women who gain weight during pregnancy and then it doesn’t come off. A lot of weight. Are you still turned on by her?
I lost 60 pounds after my last pregnancy to get down to the weight I was when I got married. My husband has made absolutely no comments about it – like good work or anything like that. All he says is that I didn’t need to work so hard.
In most cases, is this how men think? What the heck – might as well go back to the 180 pounds and eat anything I want if it doesn’t make a difference. Would he still be all over me?
Stephen Clinton answers:
No, not all over you, but he might just be over you. Men ARE visual – like it or not. We wouldn’t look at porn or mags otherwise….
It’s not that he doesn’t care, it’s probably that he doesn’t realize that it doesn’t just fall off after a baby. That you DO have to work at losing it. Congratulations that you lost it.
Men don’t always say things when we should. I would often think, wow! She (my wife) looks great in that, or hmmm, I like her hair today, BUT I didn’t think to say it. Duh! It’s just how we are sometimes (often???).
Remember too, you didn’t only do it for him – YOU wanted to lose the weight too. Well done.
My wife exercised after each child and lost all the weight, and now she is reaping the benefit of it. Been married 30++yrs, 3 kids and she has young guys on the beach whistling at her in her bikini. She still fits in her Wedding dress!
To answer your question – for many guys, increased weight IS a turnoff. Women may not like to hear it, but it is true. We ARE visual. Good luck.
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